

In September 1929 Dali moved into the apartment at 7 Rue Becquerel in Paris’ Monmartre district that Paul Eluard had leased for Gala — with a view of the Montmartre windmills that would have thrilled Cervantes.
“This was a modern functionalist building,” he wrote in “The Secret Life”. “I considered this kind of architecture to be auto-punitive architecture, the architecture of poor people — and we were poor. So, not being able to have Louis XIV bureaus, we decided to live with immense windows and chromium tables with a lot of glass and mirrors.
“Gala had the gift of making everything ’shine’, and the moment she entered a place everything began furiously to sparkle. This almost monastic rigidity, meanwhile, excited my thirst for luxury even more. I felt like a cypress growing in a bathtub.”
Making his misery complete was his father’s fury over Salvador’s affair with Gala — he banished him from the family home permanently.
Papa could not have been happy, either, about his son’s scrawling the words “Sometimes I Spit on the Portrait of My Mother” on a lithograph of the Sacred Heart he’d found and then putting it in a show.
In December the son received a letter from the father informing him that he was cut from the will, and his share of the family estate reassigned to his sister Ana Maria.
One source has said that Salvador responded to his banishment by shaving off his hair and burying it in the sand on the beach at Es Llane, but surely he didn’t come near Cadaques again for some time. In fact he wouldn’t see his father again for nearly two decades.
Dali’s reply to his father’s wrath, rather, was to paint “Accommodations of Desire”, seen above, in which some see the angry lion as Dali Senior, with the vulva made of ants representing Dali Junior’s fear of impotence.

In 1936, on the eve of his departure from Europe to spend the war years in America, Dali decided it was time to try and reconcile with the family. From “The Secret Life of Salvador Dali”, here is how he described his return home from France, with the Spanish civil war still a fresh memory and a global conflict looming just ahead.
“I went to Figueras — that is to say, I crossed the whole of Spain. I found my country covered with ruins, nobly impoverished, with faith in its destiny revived, and with mourning engraved with a diamond in every heart.
“Knock, knock!
“‘Who goes there? Who is knocking?’
“‘It is I.’
“‘Who?’
“‘I, Salvador Dali, your son.
“That is how I knocked at my father’s door in his house of Cadaques, at 2 o’clock one morning. I embraced my family — my father, my aunt and my sister. They prepared anchovies, sausage, and tomatoes sprinkled with oil for me. I chewed my food, stupefied and terrorised: for I saw no traces of the revolution.”
Salvador, then aged 32, retired that night to the room where he spent his childhood, pacing back and forth, marvelling that everything was just as it had been. “Moved to tears”, he poked around in the pigeon-holes of his old secretary-cabinet.
In the bottom compartment he discovered the same random items he’d kept there — keys, buttons, a dented five-centimo coin, safety pins and the balls of dust that would always reappear immediately after his mother had cleaned the desk thoroughly.
“I pressed between my fingers several of those little wads of dust, of a deep purplish colour, and taking them close to the light which continued to shine on them with the same wanness as during the convalescences of my childhood, I examined them attentively. This wad of dust was stronger than anything, because it was outside of history; it was the very dynamite of time, capable of making history itself blow up, the violet flower of tradition!
“I turned round. I knew that behind me a reproduction in a round frame, above the bed, concealed a round moisture stain in this same spot. When I was small I would sometimes lift up this painting, and almost always a little spider would come running out. I tried this now. The spot had disappeared, but a little spider scurried out, exactly as when I was a small boy.”
Dali ruminated on the waste of war: In the Spanish conflict his sister had been tortured by a military-intelligence committee, a bomb had ripped a balcony from the house, and the floor tiles in the dining room were blackened by a fire over which occupying “anarchists” had cooked their meals.
But, like the large dining table that had vanished for two months and then been found again 20 kilometres away, and now covered the charred spot on the floor, everything was just as it had been before the “revolution”. Nothing had changed.

Gala and Eluard divorced in 1932 and she married Dali on August 30, 1934 in a civil ceremony at the municipal council headquarters in Paris’ XIV arrondissement. A church service waited another 26 years — until after Eluard died, thus voiding any reluctance to offend the Catholic Church.
Paul Eluard, who had first “introduced” Dali to Gala by showing him photos of her posing in the nude, was invited to attend the 1934 ceremony but declined. Biographer Ian Gibson surmised that, sharing the surrealist penchant for “free love”, Eluard would have found the rites trite and bourgeois.
In attendance as official witnesses, though, were the painters Yves Tanguy and André Gaston, the latter a resident of the building, at 7 Rue Gauguet, where Dali had his studio.
Art critic Robert Hughes described Gala as a “very nasty and very extravagant harpy”. Ian Gibson’s more balanced view ran along the lines of “intelligent, egoistic, superstitious, sexually shameless and of an unshakeable will”.
Gibson came to believe that Gala had decided immediately on meeting Salvador that, with her guidance, he could become surrealism’s new star, and wealthy too. Her devotion to him, he implied, had its pragmatic side from the start.
Dali admitted he was completely dependent on her, saying he would go insane if she ever left him. Other than himself, he said, only she was capable of “moderating and exalting my divine madness”. She was his “Angel of Equilibrium”.
“She is the rarest being to see, the superstar who cannot in any case be compared with La Callas or Greta Garbo, because one may see them often, whereas Gala is an invisible being, the anti-exhibitionist par excellence.”
He first glimpsed Gala wearing a bathing suit on the beach, with a delicate posterior accentuated by her wasp’s waist. According to one source, this is the rear view featured in his painting “Senicitas” (seen in this post), but elsewhere it’s claimed that this work dates from his army days in 1927, two years before Gala showed up.
At any rate, that day on the beach Dali sensed right away that the Russian-turned-elegant-Parisian was the living incarnation of the woman of his childhood dreams.
Here’s how she’s described in the 1942 autobiography “The Secret Life of Salvador Dali”:
“One single being has reached a plane of life whose image is comparable to the serene perfections of the Renaissance, and this being happens to be precisely Gala, my wife, whom I had the miracle to choose.
“She is composed of those fleeting attitudes, of those Ninth Symphony-like facial expressions, which, reflecting the architectonic contours of a perfect soul, become crystallised on the very shore line of the flesh, at the skin’s surface, in the sea foam of the hierarchies of her own life, and which, having been classified, clarified by the most delicate breezes of the sentiments, harden, are organised, and become architecture in flesh and bone.
“And for this reason I can say of Gala seated that she resembles perfectly, that she is posed with the same grace as Il Tempietto di Bramante near the church of San Pietro in Montorio at Rome; for, like Stendhal in the Vatican, I too can measure exactly the slim columns of her pride, the tender and stubborn banisters of her childhood, and the divine stairways of her smile.
“And so, as I watch her from the corner of my eye during the long hours I spend huddled before my easel, I say to myself that she is as well painted as a Raphael or a Vermeer.
“The beings around us look as though they were not even finished, and so badly painted! Or rather, they look like those sordid caricatural sketches hastily drawn on cafe terraces by men with stomachs convulsed by hunger.”


On June 6, 1928, “Un Chien Andalou” had its premiere in Paris, and the avant-garde critics raved about it. The film, Dali boasted, “plunged like a dagger” into the city’s heart.














The fights “often ended with a few cracked skulls”, he observed. 
It was Alexis Mdivani who wed Van Alen and then Hutton’s first husband, and then Van Alen married another brother, Serge. A third brother, David, married the American actress Mae Murray.
Jose Maria refused to return to Castell afterward, and Roussie, Dali recalled, “was to die of grief over this four years later. To tell you how much I loved this being I shall tell you only that she resembled — as two ‘pearls of death’ resemble each other — the portrait of the young girl by Vermeer of Delft in The Hague Museum.” He doubtless refers to “The Girl with a Pearl Earring”, painted in about 1665.




